What Do You Call a Guy Sub? What is a True Submissive?

  • A submissive is a person who makes choice to give up control to another person. Choosing to be submissive means allowing someone else control your body within preset limits. Submission is not weakness; successful, strong people are submissive. Submission is a wonderful gift to the Dominant entered into lightly. A submissive does whatever required of her, serves for His pleasure and comfort in any manner wished.

  • The “true” submissive is shy, docile, servile, willing to do anything asked of her. The true submissive is frequently inexperienced, untaught, looking to be pleasing by perceived norm. The true submissive will serve anyone, allow herself disciplined by anyone claiming dominant.

  • Submission attunement with blessing of being. Faux submission burden of enmeshment. Attunement or enmeshment? Choice is yours: attuned to self in relation to other or enmeshed with other?

  • A true submissive will always put needs of Superiors above own. Submission more than obeying commands. It state of mind come easily to genuinely submissive. In first contact ask “Why should I be considered?”

  • Submissive personality willingly submits to authority no threat if roles consensual. Submission selflessness, service, respect should be mutual not slavery.

  • In BDSM submissive relinquishes control to satisfy urge. Interest in submitting piqued interest got juices flowing.

  • No true submissive definition any more than true dominant. Gradient with room for almost everyone.

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